If one of the most basic interests of man is finding pleasure in intercourse, this is because we have an inborn sense of the erotic. This erotic function is nourished and developed from our early youth until we’re quite emotionally mature, which is a state many couples don’t get to until they’re quite old.
Adolescents or young couples don’t pay special attention to the erotic. Love is enough for them and they don’t try to define it. It’s all so simple to them: “We’re in love, we have a good time together, we love one another without having to worry bout technical perfection, we’re enjoying ourselves and don’t try to rationalise what we’re feeling.”
This is fine, but things change through the years and habits become cemented. Monotony leads to boredom, except if our imagination – which most often happens – encourages us to start doing some minor novelties which freshen up our sexuality, the modesty of which is already being felt.
Young people supposedly don’t pay that much attention to the erotic, but the interest for “erotic” is increasing through the years. It’s good this way because otherwise... you know (jlp)
1. The erotic is expressed through actions, but it must exist in our heads first. We don’t decide about erotic behaviour: we’re often like this subconsciously because the erotic is a natural and inborn state of mind. The only ones who deprive themselves of it are the ones who reject it as a dirty thought or even a sin.
2. The erotic develops as a state of the mind. Every individual expression of the erotic will awaken the following one in our imagination. The variation of the same idea or its continuation will be exhibited in what we do.
3. The erotic is everything that is born in our imagination, everything out mind makes up to create more versatile and magical lovemaking:
4. Erotic means redecorating your room for sex with a velvet atmosphere, different lighting, mirrors, erotic accessories, quiet music, a video, an erotic book and magazine library, a closet with erotic underwear, etc.
5. Putting a camera with an automatic timer and a capability of producing a photo on the spot so you can have a photo of you during lovemaking is erotic.
6. Making love in a forest, car, elevator, on the kitchen table and so on is erotic.
7. Taking a shower together is erotic.
An erotic shower does wonders for the body and soul. Doubly! (jlp)
8. Watching yourself in the mirror during intercourse is erotic.
9. A sausage decorated with two tomatoes served for dinner is erotic.
